Testimonials

The best recommendations come from satisfied clients. Here are some testimonials from singles I had the pleasure of coaching in 2011.

“I had been dating on the Upper West Side for for about 5 years before I met my fiancee. Dating had been a challenging experience and meeting Jon though wonderful, also had its challenges. During our courtship and up until our engagement, I periodically spoke to goings on of the relationship with Rabbi Arnie. Arnie helped me put things into perspective.
Most notably was the day Arnie reminded me that a few months prior to meeting Jonathan, I would have been happy to have relationship issues because it meant I was actually in a relationship. Though it was a simple realization it was one I had missed. What was I complaining about? After all, I had met an amazing man who I could really see a future with and I was focusing on minor details.
Arnie helped me approach obstacles Jonathan and I had encountered with a different attitude. Certain issues I learned to ‘negotiate’ rather than just giving up which I think many people do at the first bump in the road. Arnie’s coaching really made a difference in my dating experience and I would personally recommend that everyone have a dating mentor. We have mentors for all other parts of life, why not have someone help you in perhaps the most important aspect of life?”
- – - Rachel H. (Married!)

“Rabbi Singer helped me tremendously throughout my dating process. His personalized advice and ability to be available at any time when I had a question or just needed to talk was so helpful. I knew I could reach out to him whenever I needed. His positive outlook also gave me such strength since dating can be such a roller coaster. Overall you can tell that he deeply cares about everyone he works with and really wants them to get married to their bashert. He even remembered me on a recent trip to Israel and included me in his prayers at the kotel!”
- – - Melissa G. (Married!)

“R. Arnie Singer has been a great resource to me in the past year. Since I’m new to an observant life, and very new to the orthodox way of dating I had many questions and concerns. Being men and women are so different in their thought process, having a male perspective has been very helpful. Arnie has coached me on how to date with the purpose of marriage in mind. I feel Arnie’s coaching has played a significant role in my ability to be in a healthy and successful relationship.”
- – - Jennifer S.

“I have truly benefited from meeting with R. Arnie, his “no nonsense” style has added a degree of certainty through a very uncertain process. With Arnie I have never felt that my search for the right person is hopeless, and no matter what difficult dating experience I might have had, I never felt that I was the only one. The access to the JCoach blogs and the newly developed Q&A section is instrumental for me in getting dating advice”on the spur of the moment” or answers to questions I may not have remembered to ask in our face to face meetings. I have definitely benefited from Arnie’s experience and guidance through this difficult process and I cannot thank him enough for his help!”
— Teresa B.