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How long is too long to be dating
Jan
22
2012
I’ve been seeing this guy for about 6 months we’ve had the wold talk about being boyfriend and girlfriend about 2 months in and we both agreed that we would just be basically friends with benefits until one of us decided to cut it off (sadly i’ve started falling for him). Well during this talk we decided we would be only seeing each other and no one else. Should i bring it up again or just let him go? He calls me babe or baby but then the other day i saw a text saying to our mutual friend saying his party was fun but needed more girls so he could “mac” on them.. i was at that party.. i dont understand this whole thing/him… Help
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Answer #1
I think you really do understand exactly whats going on, but you don’t want to accept the truth. You said clearly that “we both agreed that we would just be basically friends with benefits until one of us decided to cut it off”. He’s getting his benefits for free! Why the heck would he be the one to break it off??
If you’re happy with being his “friend with benefits” without any sort of commitment on his part, then go for it. If not then break it off. If you’re waiting for him to do it, he never will.
Don’t be a victim. Take control of your situation and move on.