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How do I get her to open up?
Jun
28
2011
I’ve been dating a woman for a few weeks and we have a great time together and I really feel a connection. The problem is that I feel that she’s just not opening up to me and sharing her feelings, or whatever else is going on in her mind. I’m frustrated. How do I get her to open up?
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Answer #1
There are 2 possible reasons for your girlfriend’s reluctance to open up.
The first is that openness might just not be part of her personality. It might take a lot of work on your part to gain her trust and make her feel comfortable to share…much more than a few weeks worth. She might never be that open.
The second, and more likely, reason is that she probably hasn’t decided that you are the right guy for her. When a woman opens up to a guy, it means she has feelings for him. Although you’ve had a nice time together, maybe she just doesn’t feel the same way about you as you do about her. Maybe she just needs a little more time to get there.
I’d suggest giving it some more time and then reevaluate.